Professional Dominatrix Let's talk about what it's like to have me as your Domme. As a pro I often hear about how hard it is to find a Domme, a female led relationship, etc. how if she's asking for money, she's fake, that no good Domme wants to be paid, and all kind of other things men say to justify free access to a woman's body. I say, if you're good at something, and there's a demand for it, why not get paid for it? Why did I give up a twenty year career in behavioral health? Because I hated it, and was still making shit money for shit work. I'm experienced, educated, and love what I do, but yes, you have to pay for the privilege to kneel before me.